There was a moment recently that really shifted my perspective. I was listening to Web5ngay talk about the topic “Being Good Without Studying,” and it sparked something in me. It wasn’t just interesting, it made me want to live differently.
One key idea stood out: To truly learn from others, we must set aside our ego. That little voice inside that always wants to speak, advise, or prove we know better, it often blocks us from receiving new insights. When someone says, “I’m sick,” instead of jumping in with advice, what if we simply asked, “Why do you think you’re sick?” and listened?
By doing that, we open ourselves to learning. We might hear about late nights, stress, poor habits, things that aren’t in textbooks but are real-life knowledge. Just sitting quietly and following someone’s story can teach us so much. Then we can reflect and apply those lessons to our own lives.
Applying This in Daily Life
When someone says, “I feel sad,” I now ask, “Why do you feel that way?” Then I might gently ask about their eating habits, sleep, or exercise. Often, sadness isn’t just emotional, it’s connected to physical health too. Gut health, nutrition, movement, they all play a role.
Listening Is Both Kindness and Wisdom
Every time I choose to listen instead of interrupt, I gain something. I understand others better, and I understand myself better too. If more of us practiced this kind of listening, I believe the world would feel a little softer, a little wiser.
Reference:
Web5ngay. (2023, December 10). Ko “Học” Vẫn Giỏi? [Video]. YouTube. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GzEgrovRAZo